Before you start to changing yourself, you must decide where your finish line is (well, at least your ‘temporary finish line’, coz it can change in many time).

What do you want ?, a girlfriends ?, a girls that fun to be teased with ?, sex partner (ups…, not me) ?, or your truly future-wife ? or just a friend ? (if you pick the last, then this site isn’t for you, I named the site with ‘getyourgirl’ right ?, not ‘getyourfriend’, hehehe)

OKay.. okay ..

Now you’ve decided what you want. Then what next ?

No matter what choose, your very first start step is MAKE AN ATTRACTION, with your personality …

Women interested in many ways, money, physical looks, popularity, etc. But the most powerful thing that they like is PERSONALITY. And the good news is …, you can change your personality !

Well, okay …., you can change anything, but not as fast as you change your personality. You can be RICH, but not in a week, you can have your six-pack abs with your muscular body, body it’ll take you a whole year. Change your personality, is far far easier.

Hmm.., here’s a couple thing that you CAN change, to make yourself better (and make women attracted) :

1. Gesture or Body Language
The very first part, women can sense what you feel, the can easily recognize wheter you’re confident or not. It’s just their instinct. They can see it from your Body Language.

2. Eye Sight
Guys who can’t see women right into her eyes, are total wuss. They’re lack of confident. No matter how rich he is, how handsome he is, but when women know you’re a wuss. You’re out of the list. When talk to women, look them right into their eyes. It shows that you’re a leader, see her with a deep-romantic-but-wild eyes. And they’ll feel attracted to you.

3. Voice
Okay, you know a guy, he’s cool, have a nice body language, with a total deep-sight on his eyes. But when he talk, what you hear is *beep…* *beep …* voice. Khahahaha.LoL.Voice, also play important part. Try to talk with your diagfragma, not with your throat.

4. Creativity and Story Telling
What I mean is, your creativity when you talk with her, somebody tell me, that every people in this world have a boring life, they have a boring activity, with a boring reasons that make them do that boring job. Be creative, be different, be funny, and others will see you different. Same thing to girls. And for the Story Telling. I’ll post it on another post. In a major line, it’s an ability to make an usual story become more interesting.

5. Style
Enough with your inner mental, now is time for your appearance. Get a new cloth, but a shirt that suits for you, but make sure you don’t over it. Buy fashion magazine, it won’t hurt you !, Actually, I don’t believe in love in first sight. But despite that, I know that looks …, is playing important part on your way to GetYourGirl

GoldCocoon